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ONE PRAYER IN ONE WORD

Bogdaproste: a prayer paid for with bread

Bogdaproste is a Slavic prayer fossilized into a single word — Bog da prosti, “God forgive”. It is said when receiving something as pomana, and pomana is the gift that forgives the sins of the dead.

Three Slavic words became one Romanian word:

BOGDAPROSTE

PRIMIT · prayed · 1746→TODAY

See the receipt

3→1
three Slavic words, one Romanian word
1746
Mărgăritare: the first written attestation
Bog da prosti
“God forgive” — the whole formula
Roman funerary relief with a banquet scene
Funerary relief with a banquet scene, Roman period, Amorgos. Photo: Zde, Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0

One prayer in one word

The dictionaries say the same thing from three sides: bogdaproste is one word, it is said when receiving pomana, and it comes from Slavic Bog da prosti.

The whole formula, unsplit

Bogŭ da prostitĭ

“God forgive them (your dead)” — the DER gloss, after the educalingo mirror

The parts of the formula (BOG / DA / PROSTI) appear separately nowhere on this page: no cited Slavic grammar backs the split, so the formula stays whole.

MDA2: a single word

“bogdaproste [At: (a. 1746) MĂRGĂRITARE, ap. TDRG / E: bg бог да прости] (Pop) Cuvânt de mulțumire pentru cel care dă de pomană.”

“ap. TDRG” means the dictionary cites the attestation through TDRG; the card shows exactly what the dictionary shows.

CADE: the beggars’ formula

“BOGDAPROSTE! pop. BODAPROSTE! sau BODAPROSTI! … (rostit în spec. de cerșetori cînd li se dă ceva de pomană) … [vsl. bogŭ-da-prostitĭ]”

Four witnesses from books

  1. ISP.

    “bogdaproste! cucoane, și Dumnezeu să primească”

  2. RET.

    “zise crîșmăriței un bogdaproste”

  3. NEGR.

    “împărțind bogdaprostele”

  4. CRG.

    “ca un puiu de bogdaproste” — “copil de cerșetor, slab, prăpădit”

The quotations are the ones CADE collected; the full texts stay out.

Other spellings

  • bodaproste
  • bodaprosti
  • bogdaprosta
  • bogdaprostă
  • bogdaprosti

The MDA2 paradigm, popular and regional forms.

“A zice un bogdaproste” (RET.) — the thanks used as a noun; MDA2 records the sense “Mulțumire (pentru o pomană)”.

“Pui de bogdaproste”: CADE glosses it “copil de cerșetor, slab, prăpădit”; DER proposes a different reckoning, chickens given to monasteries — the page shows both.

Slavic prostiti means “to forgive”, and old *prostiti comes from *prostъ + *-iti (Wiktionary). What *prostъ means alone runs past the cited source; this sentence stops here.

3→1 Slavic words → Romanian word

Old Church Slavonic manuscript page, Codex Suprasliensis
An Old Church Slavonic page (Codex Suprasliensis): the language of the prayer before it entered Romanian. Photo: Unknown author, Wikimedia Commons, public domain
Early Romanian Cyrillic printed page
Romanian Cyrillic print (Varlaam’s Cazania, 1643): what a printed page looked like a century before the attestation. Not the 1746 Mărgăritare page. Photo: Vasile Lupu / Varlaam Moțoc, Wikimedia Commons, public domain

The receipt between worlds.

The meal between the living and the dead

At Rome, the dead received food at the tomb once a year. In today’s Romanian, pomana is the meal given after a burial or parastas. Two documented ends of the same meal — no proven lineage.

  1. Parentalia, 13–21 February

    The days of the parents: between 13 and 21 February, Romans carried offerings to the tombs. The last day was called Feralia (Ovid, Fasti II 569, after Harpers).

  2. Ovid’s offerings

    A tile wreathed with garlands, meal, salt, bread soaked in wine, violets on a brick, and prayers. “Their shades ask little” (Ovid, Fasti II, Kline translation).

  3. The meal eaten at the grave

    Romans ate at the grave on burial day (silicernium, after Varro, in Harpers); at Pompeii a triclinium funebre was found, the dining couch for remembering the dead.

  4. Feralia, because “they bear”

    The day is called Feralia because they bear (ferunt) offerings to the dead: the last day to propitiate the shades (Ovid, Fasti II, Kline translation).

  5. Today: pomana

    DEX: “Dar, danie, ofrandă … la iertarea păcatelor, la mântuirea sufletului” and “Masă care se dă după înmormântare sau după parastas”. MDA2 adds the memorial service for the dead, the meal at which the dead’s belongings are given to the poor, and the colac given at burials and parastase.

The ledger: what the living give, what the dead receive

WHAT THE LIVING GIVE

  • offerings at the tomb (Feralia)
  • pomana: gift and meal (today)

WHAT THE DEAD RECEIVE

  • remembrance and propitiation (Ovid)
  • forgiveness of sins, salvation of the soul (DEX)

The two columns stand side by side as documented practices, not as links in a chain.

Manuscript page of Ovid’s Fasti
Ovid’s page on the Feralia (Fasti, Vat. lat. 3263): the list of offerings and the day of propitiation. Photo: Ovid, manuscript by Julius Pomponius Laetus, Wikimedia Commons, public domain
Marble funerary relief with a banquet scene
Funerary relief with a banquet and departing warriors (Metropolitan Museum of Art, CC0). Photo: The Metropolitan Museum of Art, Wikimedia Commons, CC0
Funerary stele with a banquet scene
Limestone funerary stele with a banquet scene (Metropolitan Museum of Art, CC0). Photo: The Metropolitan Museum of Art, Wikimedia Commons, CC0
Palmyrene funerary stele with a banquet scene
Funerary banquet stele, Palmyra, Roman Syria, 2nd–3rd century. Photo: Mary Harrsch, Wikimedia Commons, CC BY 2.0
Watercolour of tombs in Pompeii’s necropolis
Tombs at Pompeii, watercolour by Luigi Bazzani, 19th century: the street of tombs where the memorial meal was eaten. Photo: Luigi Bazzani, Wikimedia Commons, public domain
Tombs and mausoleums at Porta Nocera, Pompeii
The Porta Nocera necropolis, Pompeii: the tombs that received the yearly offerings. Photo: Ввласенко, Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 3.0

The word travels

From the Slavic formula to today’s dictionary, the word lost two spaces and kept the whole prayer.

Three words became one: the dictionaries record the result, not the process. MDA2 writes the headword joined and puts the Slavic formula at the etymology.

Today, at the table

Bogdaproste is said today when receiving pomana — CADE records it as the beggars’ formula, DER as their traditionally kept formula. That is all the dictionaries say about today’s use.

The whole formula, inside a tale

In the tale, a man begs pomana at Sur-Vultur’s sister’s house and receives it; his answer is the whole formula:

— Bogdaproste, da pomană să fie cui a făcut-o, iar Sur-Vultur să trăiască unde-o fi.

A bowl of boiled memorial wheat
Wheat boiled with honey and walnut (koljivo): memorial wheat. Photo: Zserghei, Wikimedia Commons, public domain
Lit candles on graves
Candles on graves for All Saints’ Day, Poland: remembrance with light. Photo: MichalPL, Wikimedia Commons, CC0

The receipt

Three beats: the living give, the receiver answers with the prayer, the receipt prints. Pick an offering, then play or walk the beats.

Pick an offering:

ROME · 21 FEB · Ovid, Fasti II · Beat 3 / 3

  1. THE LIVING GIVE

    The chosen offering is laid on the tomb, or given as pomana.

  2. THE PRAYER

    The receiver answers: Bogdaproste — “God forgive”.

  3. THE RECEIPT

    The lines print one by one; the PRIMIT stamp closes the transaction.

GIVEN Bread soaked in wine

PRAYED Bog da prosti

PRIMIT

The ← → keys move the beats.

“The oldest receipt” is an editorial metaphor: proof of the transaction between the living and the dead, not a date.

Round braided bread
Round bread (kalach): the bread offering of today’s beat. Photo: Ural-66, Wikimedia Commons, CC0

Decode the receipt

Four rounds, two offerings, two eras. Every round teaches one row of the sources.

  1. 1 Bread soaked in wine was laid on the tomb at…

    That is right. Ovid lists bread soaked in wine among the Feralia offerings. (C09 · Ovid, Fasti II)

  2. 2 The colac is given…

    That is right. MDA2: colac given at burials and parastase. (C07 · MDA2)

  3. 3 At the Feralia, the tomb received…

    That is right. Ovid’s list: garlands, meal, salt, bread in wine, violets, prayers. (C09 · Ovid, Fasti II)

  4. 4 As pomana, today, people give…

    That is right. Pomana is the gift and meal for the forgiveness of sins; the colac is its bread offering. (C06–C07 · DEX, MDA2)

Score: 0 of 4

The numbers

3→1

three Slavic words, one Romanian word — counted from the formula

1746

Mărgăritare: the first written attestation, cited by MDA2 through TDRG

Three myths

“Bogdaproste” means “thank you”.

No. “Thank you” is the function; the content is a forgiveness prayer for the dead.

It is the oldest Romanian thanks.

No. “The oldest receipt” is this page’s metaphor for the transaction proof; the first attestation is 1746 — late, not old.

It is a rustic thanks, interchangeable with mulțumesc.

No. It answers pomana — the gift and meal for the dead. The etymology of mulțumesc is another story.

Sources

Dictionaries first, then Rome, then the tale. Each row below is one page claim with its source.

RowClaimSource
C01Bogdaproste is one word, the thanks for the one who gives pomana, from Bulg. бог да прости.MDA2, on dexonline
C02The older BODAPROSTE / BODAPROSTI, said by beggars when given pomana; [vsl. bogŭ-da-prostitĭ].CADE (Scriban), on dexonline
C03Bogŭ da prostitĭ = “God forgive them (your dead)”; a beggars’ formula, only for pomana.DER, after the educalingo mirror — text to verify
C04First attestation: 1746, Mărgăritare.MDA2 (“ap. TDRG”), on dexonline
C05OCS prostiti = “to forgive”; *prostiti ← *prostъ + *-iti.Wiktionary
C06Pomana: a gift for the forgiveness of sins and salvation of the soul; the meal after burial or parastas; the parastas.DEX, on dexonline
C07The memorial service for the dead; the meal gifting the dead’s belongings to the poor; the burial colac.MDA2, on dexonline
C08Parentalia 13–21 Feb, Feralia the last day; silicernium at the grave; triclinium funebre at Pompeii.Harpers, Funus, on Perseus
C09The offerings: garlands, meal, salt, bread in wine, violets, prayers; Feralia ← ferunt.Ovid, Fasti II, Kline translation
C11Thank ← *thankoz “thought; gratitude”, kin to think.Etymology Online
C12The ISP. / RET. / NEGR. / CRG. witnesses, in CADE’s quotations.CADE, on dexonline
C13“Bogdaproste, da pomană să fie cui a făcut-o…” — answering a received pomana.Stăncescu, “Sur-Vultur”, on Wikisource
C14The engine’s offerings and beats: bread-in-wine → Feralia, colac → today’s pomana.derived from C06–C09
C15“The oldest receipt” is an editorial metaphor, not a date.this page

The method, briefly

The dictionary quotations are verified on dexonline; Rome is verified in Harpers and Ovid (Kline translation); the fragment is verified on Wikisource (Stăncescu, d. 1899, public domain). What the page leaves out, it leaves out for want of a cited source: the part-by-part gloss, the Slavic cognate pairings, the currency of today’s Bulgarian formula, and the bridge between pagan and Christian Rome.

Sibling pieces

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